happy moments: it needs guts to be a parent

23 August 2012

it needs guts to be a parent

here you can find other lovely photo postcards.. I love this one above.

Good morning my lovelies. I'm enjoying a cup of hot douwe egberts coffee in the office. It smells great... a perfect hazelnut sense on my tongue... i love this morning minutes of the absolute silence in the room of my office.. these moments are so valuable and soo rear... i don't know if it's because i'm getting older and odder or it's because of my new boss you yells almost continuously.... I went to visit my brand new 2 days old nephew yesterday. He is soo cute and so tiny.. my cousin's son. i thought i'd break him if i held him.. this very moment i was thinking that if someone told me "take him home with you" i wouldn't know what to do and i got panicked.. It needs guts to be a parent.. The lovely couple was very calm and happy. It's their second baby so they didn't seem very excited to me. I cannot tell, i have no experience in this field.. FEAR comes to me in the thought of becoming a mom.. but i'd love to.. That's why i treat my students/nephews-/nieces/friends with tenderness..

Someone got to stop me from rambling... i need to get to work and studying.. I have to.. the clock is ticking...

love you.... smile, hug, scream out of joy, get passionate... life is short my pumpkins...

xoxo

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We believe we are hurt when we don’t receive love. But that is not what hurts us. Our pain comes when we do not give love. We were born to love. You might say that we are divinely created love machines. We function most powerfully when we are giving love. The world has led us to believe that our well-being is dependent on other people loving us. But this is kind of upside down thinking that has caused so many of our problems. The truth is our well being is dependent on our giving love. It is not about what comes back; it is about what goes out!
—
Alan Cohen

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She cannot sleep too much or too little.
She must measure everything:
eating, sleeping, working and relaxing.
Everything she does
should be just right and even.

A Yogi is never afraid.

The Yogi who's mind is concentrating on God
does not shake.
He is steady
like a candle in a room where there is no wind.
The Yogi's mind does not move away from the truth.

To become a Yogi
you have to practice being calm.
You have to practice not fidgeting
and concentrating on God.

And the Yogi who is perfectly calm
is pure and free of sin.
He is one with God
and perfectly happy.

-Bhagavad Gita

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